We love a good craft moment. Mason jars with twine? Cute. Hand lettered signs? Adorable. But there’s a difference between charming details and make or break moments. In a world where Pinterest reigns and budgets are real, it’s easy to get swept up in the idea of doing it all yourself. And while DIY for your wedding can save money in some areas, there are certain things that should be left in the hands of pros. Trust me, as an Austin wedding photographer, I’ve seen firsthand how some DIYs can become wedding day disasters.

Here are five things you shouldn’t DIY on your wedding day no matter how confident you are in your glue gun skills.

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1. Don’t Risk It: Hire a Pro for Photos and Video

I’m going to say this from the heart: your wedding photos are the only tangible memories that will remain after the music stops and the flowers fade. I know it’s tempting to hand the camera to your cousin with a “really nice camera,” but when it comes to capturing once in a lifetime moments, there’s no substitute for experience, gear, and an expert eye.

As an Austin wedding photographer, I don’t just show up and snap photos. I anticipate moments, work with light, and tell your story authentically. DIY for your wedding should never include photography. You deserve to relive every smile, tear, and twirl without regret.

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2. DIY Wedding Cake Disasters: Why It’s Worth Hiring a Pro

Unless you moonlight as a pastry chef with nerves of steel and a commercial fridge, just don’t. Wedding cakes are more than just pretty. They need to survive transport, heat, time, and eager guests. The last thing you want is a leaning tower of buttercream two hours before your reception.

Hiring a pro means your cake will not only taste incredible, but it will look the part too. That’s one less stressor and one more thing you’ll actually get to enjoy on your day.

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3. Feeding a Crowd Is No Small Feat

Feeding 100 people is not the same as hosting a dinner party. It’s a logistical beast involving food safety regulations, prep timelines, service coordination, and cleanup. If you attempt to DIY your catering, you’re risking cold food, late meals, or even worse, hangry guests.

Professional caterers in Austin know how to handle large scale events efficiently. DIY for your wedding might seem cheaper, but it usually ends up costing more in stress and effort.

Left to right: Barr Mansion Catering | The Wayback

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4. Why DIY Wedding Music Can Ruin the Vibe

Whether it’s the vibe setting playlist or the perfect timing of your first dance, music matters. Your college roommate’s Spotify playlist won’t cut it. A great DJ or live band reads the crowd, keeps the energy flowing, and ensures your reception doesn’t turn into an awkward eighth grade dance.

Plus, they bring their own sound equipment and backup plans if something goes sideways. One more reason DIY for your wedding can backfire when it comes to entertainment.

Entertainment by: DJ Nixx Entertainment and The Motion Band

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5. Your Wedding Dress Is Not a Project

We’ve all seen the “what I ordered vs. what I got” horror stories. This isn’t the time to test your sewing skills or take a gamble on a too good to be true online dress shop. Your gown should fit you—your style, your body, and your moment. Tailoring a dress yourself or asking a friend to take on the pressure can lead to heartbreak (and safety pins).

Let a local bridal shop guide you with expertise and ensure your dress feels like you. You’ll want to look your best in every photo your photographer captures, and that starts with a gown you love.

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What Can You DIY?

Okay, we’ve been tough love up to now but here’s your green light: do the handmade signage. Create your welcome bags. Craft your centerpieces if you’ve got the time and energy. These things add personal flair without risking major disasters.

But when it comes to preserving the magic, leave it to the pros, especially your photographer. I’d love to capture your day just as you dreamed it. As an Austin wedding photographer, I’ve worked with couples who trusted me to document the moments they never want to forget. You can view my portfolio here or get in touch with me today.

Remember, DIY for your wedding should never come at the cost of your memories.